IF YOUR LIFE HAS TAKEN A TURN LEAN IN AND MERRY BEACH (2n May 2019)

If your life has taken a turn, remember to lean in. You never know what new opportunities might be waiting around the corner.

Ken Reid

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3 Lies We Believe When We Grow Up 

I am waiting for something to turn up. I am hoping a new opportunity may be waiting for me around the corner. 

I was unexpectedly made redundant from my job 6 years ago at the age of 58 and I am waiting for something to turn up to take its place. I could have done some casual teaching at a local Catholic College, but just couldn't face it. In the past I have done enough casual teaching to last a lifetime. After many years I still have nightmares about it. And I have been out of mainstream teaching for too long to do any work in the state education system.

I had been working at a small 'last resort' school for year 10 students - students whose life circumstances meant they were unable to go to mainstream school. These were mostly kids who had been excluded from  schools because of their inappropriate behaviour.

I loved my work but I must admit that after 15 years I was becoming a little tired. Anyway, despite the fact that I had thrown my life into my work it was taken out of my hands and I had to finish. 

Since then I have tried a number of things. I have tried restoring old furniture; selling cosmetics; marketing on the internet which lost me money; and tutoring. For various reasons nothing really worked. Either a venture was just unsuccessful or caused me too much stress.

Way back in the 3rd century BC Epicurius said,  Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”

Should I just give up? Should I just accept things. But there are  are still things I want to do. I want to travel. I want to fix my house. My car has seen better days. I'm not quite ready to settle for things

My next plan is to try a more professional blog based on budget Plant Paradox compliant recipes for Australians.

In the words of Tony Robbins:“If you want lasting change, you have to give up this idea of just trying something, and you have to commit yourself to mastery. That means not just “dabbling,” but fully immersing yourself. Because your life is not controlled by what you do some of the time, but by what you do consistently.”And according to W.B. Murray,  “Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.”

So number one is commitment.

I need to commit. And I need to believe. Author David Schwartz  says, “Belief, strong belief, triggers the mind to figure out ways and means how to.” On the other hand he says, “Disbelief is negative power. When the mind disbelieves or doubts, the mind attracts reasons to support the disbelief.”


 So I need to set out on my new venture with commitment and the belief I can do it and 'lean in' to what comes across my path. So keep posted for my new blog.

A Trip to Merry Beach

Meanwhile we have been away for a few days to Merry Beach on the New South Wales south coast. We went at a moment's notice when we realised we had a week without appointments or commitments. Peter's daughter and her husband and three little girls were there so we enjoyed our time with them.

We went to see the movie Dumbo and had a game of mini golf. We also spent time at the beach.

We stayed in our little caravan and there were plenty of kangaroos around.

Our caravan is about 20 years old but very neat and clean. We bought it a few years ago

We had a lovely few days. It was beautiful weather. We realised that it had been about 2 years since we had been away in our caravan. I had forgotten what was in all the cupboards so it was like camping in a new caravan. Poetry Robert Frost is one of my favourite poets. I came across this poem in my reading. I love it and thought I would add it.

Mending Wall By Robert Frost

Something there is that doesn't love a wall, That sends the frozen-ground-swell under it, And spills the upper boulders in the sun; And makes gaps even two can pass abreast. The work of hunters is another thing: I have come after them and made repair Where they have left not one stone on a stone, But they would have the rabbit out of hiding, To please the yelping dogs. The gaps I mean, No one has seen them made or heard them made, But at spring mending-time we find them there. I let my neighbour know beyond the hill; And on a day we meet to walk the line And set the wall between us once again. We keep the wall between us as we go. To each the boulders that have fallen to each. And some are loaves and some so nearly balls We have to use a spell to make them balance: "Stay where you are until our backs are turned!" We wear our fingers rough with handling them. Oh, just another kind of out-door game, One on a side. It comes to little more: There where it is we do not need the wall: He is all pine and I am apple orchard. My apple trees will never get across And eat the cones under his pines, I tell him. He only says, "Good fences make good neighbours." Spring is the mischief in me, and I wonder If I could put a notion in his head: "Why do they make good neighbours? Isn't it Where there are cows? But here there are no cows. Before I built a wall I'd ask to know What I was walling in or walling out, And to whom I was like to give offence. Something there is that doesn't love a wall, That wants it down." I could say "Elves" to him, But it's not elves exactly, and I'd rather He said it for himself. I see him there Bringing a stone grasped firmly by the top In each hand, like an old-stone savage armed. He moves in darkness as it seems to me, Not of woods only and the shade of trees. He will not go behind his father's saying, And he likes having thought of it so well He says again, "Good fences make good neighbours."

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1. Swedish glamping pod

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